In a long distance relationship, there must be an open communication on both part, if you feel that you are sad, then let him know it. If you're mad then let it be. What is important is you let him feel that whatever you're treatment when you're
both in each others embrace, will still be the same even if the only communication that you have is phone or internet.
The painful part of this relationship is when your partner tend to forget or call. You don't have to stay on the phone or internet forever, a simple message will do. If you promised that you will call him/her be sure that you won't forget, cause
you don't know what might be the impression you're giving to your partner. Remember she might get insecure.
Always keep the conversation alive. There must no dull moments or else this will be a start of a hell relationship. Assurance is necessary for both parties. Let him know that whatever happens you'll be back on each other's arms. It is a must that both partner must commit and do as promised cause it has no sense to wait for someone who's not there. Painful though, but you have to let it go if the situation will be like that. You will be wasting your time calling or texting for someone who don't care.
Lesson learned, love yourself.
napaka bitter naman nun sahuli.... kalao okey sa simula eh..
ReplyDeletehahaha. Oo nga, lots of lessons to be learned from a long-distance relationship. It's hard and something I will never do again *wink wink*. Siguro ang importante sa long-distance rel is wag patagalin ng husto, either the two persons in the relationship do something to be together already, or tapusin na lang kung walang mangyayari. We always have to keep moving forward :)
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